Aku rasa semua lelaki patut baca ni. Especially yang pernah rosakkan anak dara orang.
Mungkin kau tak rasa apa-apa lepas kau dump perempuan yang kau pernah tidur sekali. Tapi pernah kau fikir apa akan jadi dekat perempuan tu nanti? Kalau jawapan kau “lantak dia la, siapa suruh dia yang nak bagi…
Jangan terlalu menjauh.
Nanti aku terjatuh.
Jangan terlalu mendekat.
Nanti aku terikat.
Hanya biasa biasa.
Cukup untuk buat aku rasa selesa.
"He’s not my boyfriend. We didn’t declare anything. We’re just very good friends. One day, I found out that he has a relationship with another girl and I was angry. He apologized but I refused to accept it."
I think it is safe to say that he was your boyfriend. If not, then you wouldn’t be angry or jealous if he has a relationship with another girl, up to a point where he has to apologize to you.
Why do you feel angry? Why does he feel like he has to apologize?
The absence of the so-called “declaration” doesn’t make a difference. Just because you don’t declare “he’s my boyfriend” doesn’t mean that he is not your boyfriend.
"Boyfriend" is just a name. It is just a convenient label. We don’t obsess ourselves with labels. We observe what the label means. The meaning of the label lies in the intention and the actions that you do.
Always observe your intention and your actions. What do they indicate? If they indicate something that drive you away from Allah, then you should do your best to avoid it.
Shaytan may whisper, “Don’t worry. He’s not your boyfriend. You guys are just friends.”
But deep down in your heart, do you honestly think so?
- Aiman Azlan | Fbhttps://www.facebook.com/aimanazlan90?fref=ts